man told me recently: "when your output exceeds your input, your
upkeep will be your downfall." My life changed that day and I
realized that I cannot help the needy if I am one of them. We often put our own
health and life goals on the back burner and sell out strictly for gain in
other areas. We end up out of balance when balance is exactly what we need.
out. It is a tough economy out there and there are many reasons why, but please
avoid the victim trap and get your head on straight. You have control over your
these tips to make this year your best year yet:
You Are Responsible For All Of Your Life.
moment to look truthfully at your results in every area of your life-money,
relationships, business, health, intimacy, etc. Take 100 percent responsibility
for everything in your life and everything missing in your life then you leave
no one else to blame and can begin creating the life of your dreams. You
deliberately create all that is your reality and attract only what you
Create A Strong "Why" With Clarity.
"why" big enough and important enough so you will never get consumed
and stopped by "how" to achieve a goal (success). Your why must be
bigger than every obstacle you will encounter on the road to success. Your why
must always be bigger than the how. Your why must be developed with a
Focus Most of Your Energy On What You Want.
of your energy on what you want. Having clarity is a powerful part of the
process. Take time, as much as needed, to get crystal clear on exactly what you
want in your life and focus on it. Be bold. Most people never get what they
want because they never know exactly what they want. There is power in clarity.
Surround Yourself With Like-Minded, Positive People.
saying is "you are known by the company you keep." This is very true.
Some say we are the average of the 5 people we hang out with the most. Take
inventory of all the positive influences in your life and dump all the negative
ones. Attend personal development events, listen into mastermind calls and
read/listen to positive materials. Invest in yourself and your growth. Your
income and quality of life will never exceed your personal development.
Remember that no thought ever lives in your head rent free.
Take Massive Action.
the single most important step in achieving success. For every action there is
a result and it will either take you closer to success or move you further
away. Notice your results. Take inventory as needed on your path to success and
make slight adjustments before getting immediately back into action.
Take More Action.
stopped by the feelings of doubt or uncertainty. You are simply expanding past
your current comfort zone. Every master was once a disaster. It's a normal
pathway to success. To master anything you are going to have to practice in
spite of any uncertainty or doubt and the more you practice the quicker you
will achieve success. Practice never makes perfect, perfect practice makes
Keep Moving Towards Your Goals With Unshakeable Focus.
people slow down at the first signs of success. They simply slow down too soon
and stop taking the actions that got them there. How many people are you going
to share your life's mission with? As long as you live, right?
Set Goals. Achieve. Celebrate.
down goals that are achievable and stretch you, then take consistent action to
achieve them. If your goal is on paper it is tangible and subject to
modification without confusion. Include your spouse and children when setting
goals so that they understand and support you. Support is huge. Once you
achieve a goal go celebrate! Go on a trip together and enjoy the fruits of your
hard work. It's then time to set a new goal that stretches you all over again.
Latch On To A Greater Vision. Leave A Legacy.
opinion all people want to leave a legacy, want to contribute, and want to feel
that they have left the world a better place. On your road to success find ways
to serve others. The more people you help the more value you will place on your
success and the more success you will attract. When you "become," you
then attract more and more of what it is your heart desires. When you
"become" you are living with purpose.
your definition of fun. Commit to having health, wealth, and to having the most
Unshakeable Focus, Become Unstoppable...
Successful people all
share similar human qualities: passion, heart, determination, focus,
coach-ability and belief in the end result. None of them (successful people)
are consumed by the "How To." They simply stay focused on the
attainment of their dreams ("the why") and on taking consistent and
persistent daily action to achieve those dreams.
We are creature of
habit. For the most part our habits are subconscious. "Psycho Cybernetic
Mechanism" (the psycho) gives off a chemical reaction every time it senses
physical or emotional danger, which then triggers feelings of doubt,
apprehension, uncertainty, fear and a general feeling to retreat. You must act
in opposition to negative feelings and self-talk in your head.
Sadly, for most of us,
we learn how to merely survive and not thrive in this world of endless
possibility. Consider that by the time you are age 17 you have heard the word
"no" 150,000 times and the word "yes" only 5,000 times. I
can't then becomes a program, a "habit of thought."
You can become
unstoppable with unshakable focus and a conscious awareness of how the mind
works in forming habits.
Things to think about...
"Convergence is the
sweet spot where people discover how to give themselves 100% to the calling of
there lives-the call to use their gifts, live there passion and make a mass
difference in the lives of others." -Dr. Lance Wallnau
happiness comes from within, and then is enhanced by those around you. You
attract everything into your life and deliberately create your reality. It
starts with inner peace, is ignited by your energy and passion for life and
abundant living, and further fueled by the attractive happiness of others,
creating synergy: a purposeful and deliberate reality." -RR
"There is no such
thing as a rich victim. Take back your power and realize that you create
everything that is in your life and everything that is not in it. You create
your wealth, your non-wealth, and everything in between." -T Harv Eker,
Secrets of the Millionaire Mind
"Change has a
considerable impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because
it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because
things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge
exists to make things better." -King Whitney, Jr.